The Urgency of Now: Balancing Business, Family, and Health

By Prof. Enrique N. Soriano

The Lenten season has just passed. For many, it was a sacred pause—a time to reflect, reassess, and realign. And as we step back into the rush of our routines, the question we must ask is: What truly deserves our time and attention?

Just before the Holy Week, I flew to Los Angeles to reunite with friends, business partners, and family members. The trip was intended to be a quiet personal journey—a chance to catch up with cousins and my brother, visit former clients, and reconnect with familiar faces. However, as the days unfolded, I found myself reflecting on something deeper. Our conversations over meals and strolls through familiar streets revealed an important theme: time moves fast, and it waits for no one.

Many of the entrepreneurs I spoke with had spent years, even decades, building their empires—successful ventures built on drive, sacrifice, and ambition. Yet, as they shared their journeys, one thing became clear: in the process of creating their businesses, they had neglected the very things that matter most. Family. Health. Relationships. Time with loved ones. These, they confessed, had often been sacrificed at the altar of success. For so long, business had taken the front seat. But now, with the world in a state of constant flux and uncertainty, many are left asking themselves if it was all worth it.

What should truly be prioritized? Is it business? Family? Health? Or have we placed them in the wrong order for far too long?

As I spent time with old clients and partners, it became apparent that despite their success, many entrepreneurs in the U.S. were still unprepared for life’s inevitable curveballs. They had built companies, created products, and amassed wealth, but the foundation for the future—governance, succession planning, and leadership continuity—was often missing. There were no clear structures in place for what would happen if life took an unexpected turn. And in many cases, it was too late to make those changes.

We often think that we have time—that there’s always another day to figure things out, to put the pieces in place. But the truth is sobering: time is finite. Life has a way of surprising us with the unexpected—illness, tragedy, or any number of unforeseen circumstances that can turn everything upside down. Control is fleeting, and everything we hold dear can change in an instant.

Founders—visionaries, driven, relentless—often believe they can manage everything. They assume their ability to lead, to make decisions, and to push forward will always be there. But the reality is that at some point, the calls stop, the meetings pause, and someone else must step in.

Will they be ready?

Governance is not just a business tool. It is a form of stewardship, a moral obligation to those we leave behind. It is a reflection of our values. It’s about planning not just for the next year, but for the years to come—ensuring that what we’ve built endures. It’s about building continuity—creating the structures, agreements, and teams that will carry the business forward when we’re no longer at the helm.

During this trip, I was reminded of something we often forget: true success is measured by what we leave behind, not just in wealth, but in the people and legacy we nurture. As founders, we need to be brave enough to have the difficult conversations we’ve avoided. We must be brave enough to plan for the future while there’s still time. And we must be brave enough to ask the hardest question: What truly matters most?

Is it your business, your family, or your health?

The time to act is now. But not forever.

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