It’s possible to love our enemies

By Fr. Roy Cimagala

MAKE no mistake about this. We are clearly commanded by Christ to love our enemies, to do good to those who hate us, to bless those who curse us, to pray for those who mistreat us, etc. (cfr. Lk 6,27-38)

That may sound impossible to do, given the way we are, humanly speaking. But it really is not. God’s grace will always be available. Thus, what may appear impossible to us becomes possible and doable. When we find ourselves in situations where we have to contend with some enemies or conflicts, let’s remember that the first thing to do is to go to Christ, to ask for grace, to make our identification with him even tighter.

Especially during this election season when we are seeing a lot of fault-finding, insulting, mocking, and all other forms of negativity, we need to strengthen our belief in this one particular injunction Christ gave us—to love our enemies. This is one golden opportunity for us to become like Christ, as we ought to be, since he is the pattern of humanity and the savior of our damaged humanity.

This obviously will require a lot of virtues—humility, patience, magnanimity, fortitude, to mention a few. We have to learn how to discipline our emotions and passions, and to be most careful with what we say. We have to be quick to purify our thoughts and intentions whenever some negative elements enter into them.

Let’s remember that the greatest evil and the worst injustice have already been committed, and that is the killing of Christ by man. But such evil and injustice did not elicit another evil reaction from Christ. On the contrary, he offered forgiveness. We do not correct a wrong with another wrong. As one saint would put it, we have to drown evil with an abundance of good.

During this election season, we can have our own choices. We can be partisan. But it does not entitle us to fall into lack of charity against those who may disagree with our choices. Thus, I think it is preferable that we study all the issues quietly, and make our decisions quietly as well. There is no need to create a lot of noise which can only be toxic to everyone.

Let’s always remember what said at the end of the gospel cited above. “Stop judging and you will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven. Give, and gifts will be given to you; a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing, will be poured into your lap. For the measure with which you measure will in return be measured out to you.”

It’s very gratifying to note that Christ clearly promised that if we follow this commandment of his, we will be rewarded much more than what we appear to have sacrificed for the sake of this commandment. Yes, God cannot be outdone in generosity.

Let us brace ourselves to face this challenge of becoming true Christians. Let’s make our Christianity really work, especially in difficult moments. Christ never abandons us, and he is willing to go through the experience with us. We just have to do our part, that is, to go to him, and follow him as best that we can.

Indeed, loving enemies is a sure mark of a true Christian!

            Email: roycimagala@gmail.com